Sign-up is quick, with simple questions like sexual orientation. But be warned: Once you confirm your email address and choose a subscription plan, you will see genitals everywhere. It's your average ad-ridden splatter of nether region close-ups and X-rated self-timer photos — but hey, some people want that. Let's just hope you like it enough to pay $20 a month for it.

Aside from the usual physical appearance, location, and sexual preference questions, Clover also gives you the option of answering 20 profile questions in a similar manner to OkCupid. (If you're impatient, just stick with Tinder or PURE.) There is an option to check that you're only looking to hook up, so you can at least ensure that you won't be giving the wrong idea. While you can swipe to match, you can also request to go on a date (and even suggest a place and time), or create mixer events for multiple users to meet up. (AskMen's Clover reviewer saw a mixer titled "Lol why am I using this app," and we love that.) Note: There is a free version of Clover, but the premium memberships allows for unlimited chatting, plus you'll be able to unlock all photo, video, and badge features. Paying for an app is annoying, but Clover's impressive 4.5 star review and nearly 20,000 ratings on the App Store tells us people think it's worth it).

What Sucks: Grindr free subscription has a lot of ads which is quite annoying. You have to pay to access the ad-free version of the app. The majority of the men on the app is not looking for safe or normal conversations. Some of the pictures are a bit too explicit and include everything but faces which may be a good thing or bad thing depending on if you want a hookup or something with more substance.
Having a friend with benefits is like straddling the fence between no-strings-attached sex and a real relationship. The sex is casual, but the friendship is often very much real. The danger, of course, is that if you blur the line too much in your relationship, someone could develop real feelings, and then things either become awkwardly complicated or a blockbuster rom-com starring Justin Timberlake.
Anyone who’s over thirty-five will make good use of Ashley Madison. Not a right fit for anyone younger and we don’t recommend it for “milf chasers” either. Ashley Madison boasts more than 51 million users. Of course, not all of them are active, nor are they real, but there is a sizeable, real, and active male and female database in the over 35 group. They bill themselves as a “Cheater’s Website”, but after an in-depth look, we found that single men and women make up a large portion of the userbase as well.

What's so nice about ALT is that it gives you the chance to find a quick hookup or just meet new people who are into the same stuff you are — without having to worry that you'll be judged. With the ability to interact in private chat networks or create your own blog (aside from the expected live video broadcasts and fetish videos), you're guaranteed to at least come away with some advice or a list of new handcuffs to try.


Whiplr is an app that allows like-minded liberal people to hook up. It caters for the orientations that other online hookup apps do not so it is convenient for those who want to try something new in their sex lives or those who want to find people with similar fetishes. If you’re into more direct, straightforward hook-ups, you may want to rethink using this app.
There is one downside we need to mention, though: The amount of fake or dead profiles makes this place seem like the dating site version of The Walking Dead. Of course, all dating sites have their fair share of duds, but Zoosk is just feeling that plague a bit more intensely (we've heard it's mostly female profiles). Luckily, you can weed these out by looking for a "Currently online" or "Recently online" status.
Nevertheless, Tinder is still one of the best hookup apps out there for anyone looking for a quick hookup with someone nearby. Its GPS technology, although creepy, is helpful in finding people based on proximity. Physical appearance is pretty much the only thing that motivates someone to Swipe Right. If you’re a 10, or even a 9, Tinder might keep you busy for the next 52 Saturday nights.

Nearify is another app that can help you find places to go. It supports over 200 cities all over the world and includes all kinds of events. You can also share events, get notifications so you don't miss anything, and more. The setup is rather complex and over time the app learns what kind of stuff you like. It's a great way to get out and meet new people. Once you make it to one of these events, the world is your oyster when it comes to meeting new people. The app is entirely free if you want to give it a shot.


The good thing about 3Fun is that it caters for all orientations. It doesn’t matter what you’re into, you can always find others with your preferences using the app. It’s also convenient because messaging with that guy or woman you’re interested in is free, and you’re assured their looks are what they seem because their accounts have been verified. The navigation of the app is also simple and the expectations straightforward which is more than can be said for other hook-up apps. Meet all the open-minded people like you through 3Fun, and don’t forget to be safe by using the app’s security options. You can either use a fingerprint ID or passcode to ensure that you keep your peace of mind even when your phone’s far away.

Tips for men: Flesh out your profile fully with details about what you're after, what you offer, and where you're at relationship-wise. Make sure you post at least a few pictures of yourself; face pics definitely increase your chances of getting a reply (although you can limit to showing your face to 'friends' only). Then, hit the groups in your geographical region that cater to singles, and post a note with what you're seeking.
Another bonus is that AdultFriendFinder is like the dating site version of New York City (AKA it never sleeps). You'll find people who work the regular 9-5, people who work the night shift, and people in other time zones, so it's nearly impossible to log on and not have people to talk to. AdultFriendFinder is like the booty call that's always awake when you text them. 

One of the oldest, largest and most-trusted hookup sites on the internet, Adult FriendFinder should be on everyone's short list of hookup apps, first for its massive community of users (hey, more users means more options!) and second for its ease of use. Testifying to its effectiveness, the site has won numerous awards, including Best Adult Dating Site in 2012.
Match is also clutch because you're pretty much in control: You'll get a certain number of matches that they think you'll like per day, but you also have free rein over the search bar and can see who's nearby. This means you're able to feel out the selection and see if there are any certified hotties in your area, rather than waiting for them to give you choices or going one by one (like on Tinder). They might not have as much in common with you as your suggested matches would, but hey, does that really matter when it comes to a one night stand?
A self-proclaimed "BDSM, fetish, and kink site," ALT is one of the rare sites that's dedicated to bondage, erotic role play, and a whole lotta leather. Quick sign-up questions about gender, sexual orientation, and whether you're dominant or submissive come first, but the actual questionnaire is pretty lengthy for a site that's only fostering quick connections. However, those with very specific predilections will appreciate this attention to detail. 
Whats Good: It will automatically send you a few matches every day at noon so that you don’t have to waste time searching for matches. It really integrates actual science when it comes to attraction and uses technology well to find perfect matches for your preferences. It allows you to even integrate the app with Fitbit to analyze your heartbeat spike to find out what it is that you really want which is as good as a technology for dating gets. It has a clean user interface and cuts to the chase without a lot of hustle.
Tonight is founded by a former OkCupid employee and is as straightforward as they come. Its aim is to create more real-life connections as opposed to chatting and using the phones all the time. You just have to click a button by 6 pm to show that you would like to go on a date tonight and there will be other people who want to go on a date that night as well. So you will be matched with each other and you can select people you would like to go out with. It is available for free on iOS devices only as of now.
What’s Good: It asks you to answer the quizzes to get a sense of your likes as well as the dislikes and use that data for finding you matches. It has a large user base so that you will be sure to meet someone who wants the same things as you do, be it a relationship or a one night stand. It is available for free on iOS devices. You get most of the features like messaging, viewing you matches, newest users and more features for absolutely free.

You’ll find mixed reviews online ranging from “terrible experience”, to “this is a godsend”. One thing’s for sure, your odds of hooking up here are as good, or better than any other adult dating site simply because of the fact that they have managed to stick around for as long as they have, since 1996 to be exact, and have amassed an enormous member base.
Seemingly because of the short life cycle of the services, possible matches within a user’s vicinity are immediately suggested by the app. Having an app that deletes your profile info after an hour also comes in handy when you’re looking for security to go with your hookup life. Like Wild, Pure needs no link with your Facebook account, so your security is fortified further because Facebook friends can’t find you on it. If you need a quick hook-up, Pure has the convenience advantage as well because your matches are usually close by.
Seemingly because of the short life cycle of the services, possible matches within a user’s vicinity are immediately suggested by the app. Having an app that deletes your profile info after an hour also comes in handy when you’re looking for security to go with your hookup life. Like Wild, Pure needs no link with your Facebook account, so your security is fortified further because Facebook friends can’t find you on it. If you need a quick hook-up, Pure has the convenience advantage as well because your matches are usually close by.
The good thing about 3Fun is that it caters for all orientations. It doesn’t matter what you’re into, you can always find others with your preferences using the app. It’s also convenient because messaging with that guy or woman you’re interested in is free, and you’re assured their looks are what they seem because their accounts have been verified. The navigation of the app is also simple and the expectations straightforward which is more than can be said for other hook-up apps. Meet all the open-minded people like you through 3Fun, and don’t forget to be safe by using the app’s security options. You can either use a fingerprint ID or passcode to ensure that you keep your peace of mind even when your phone’s far away.

Whats Good: You can get matched with people around you and start chatting. You can send messages to each other which will disappear after they are viewed. The app is free on iOS and Android operating devices. It combines the ease of swiping through a dating app with the concept that three can play. You can choose the composition of your group (2+1 or 1+1+1) and start swiping.
Today, the dating site has over 40 million members spread across 80 countries. On average, Zoosk members send over 3 million messages a day, and the success stories keep coming in from all corners of the world. “We’ve been together almost eight years now,” said Sherri and Jesse, a Zoosk couple from California. “We recently had a baby, bought a house, and got married! Thank you, Zoosk, for connecting me with the love of my life.”

Let’s get down to the brass tacks. There are two main components to hooking up with someone. You have to find some place to go to meet people. Then you have to find someone that wants to do the dirty with you. There are no apps that can guarantee a hookup. However, there are some that can get the two main components out of the way. That way you can focus on your follow through. Here are the best apps for hookups and getting laid. Please note, none of these apps (or us) can help you with your game. You’ll have to do that part yourself. Now let’s get it on.

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