What Sucks: It is only available for free on iOS devices and not on Android. You will only get a few matches per day and if you don’t find any one of them to your liking, you will have to wait till the next day for new matches. If the app’s daily selection is not as per your preference, then you don’t really have an option to do anything else to find matches. You can’t also set distance or location to get matches close by as you need to pay to activate that feature.
Here's the thing about OkCupid: Their advertising is outstanding. They deserve endless applause just for that, but I realize many people on dating apps care about more than the aesthetics. Though OkCupid's advertisements may have "DTF" plastered all over them, the site's intentions and matchmaking process are no joke. The site takes compatibility factors into account that other sites haven't even thought of. 
Tips for gals: Focus on posting an ad instead of replying to them, and know that there's a good chance it'll get flagged within 24 hours. Why? There are a great number of folks on CL who are bitter, angry and/or frustrated with their lack of hooking up, and they'll automatically assume anyone who seems 'normal' is a prostitute. Share yourself genuinely, be clear and specific about who you are and what you're after, and make sure you use that flag button at the bottom of each message as often as it's needed. 
happn is an interesting geolocation app. It works by tracking your GPS as you go about your day. The app then shows you who you crossed paths with over the course of your average day. It also keeps a counter of how many times you pass that person over longer periods of time. Like most, you can express interest which is hidden unless it is reciprocated. When mutual attraction happens, you'll be allowed to chat. The app does let people pay to skirt the rules a bit. However, it is a fun little way to see if you bump into anyone over the course of your day and strike up some conversation.
On the other hand, people who value anonymity may find the app inconvenient because well, any of their Facebook friends can find them. The app has ads, and accidentally swiping left may make you lose out on a chance because they’re irreversible. That means that if you swipe left when you’re distracted, you can never view that profile gain unless you go premium. And don’t forget, Tinder’s a regular dating up so sometimes you’re going to have trouble knowing who’s using the app to hook up and who wants the whole dating experience.
I've spent many hours on these kinds of sites, talking to members, using the features, and generally trying to see if the sites offer what they say they do, while still trying to keep my (and your) privacy intact. It's a tricky juggling act, and for most folks I'd recommend hitting the club or bar before trying anything else. For those convinced that they'll find the perfect hookup online however, here's where I'd suggest starting.
Zoosk.com – Zoosk is another free, yet mainstream dating app that claims to be the #1 dating app in the Apple app store. That doesn’t mean it works best if self-proclaimed, but it’s worth mentioning here for sure. They use behavioral matchmaking of their users to anticipate a lineup of good matches for you, and with 35 million members, this is another good and free way to try and find a date.
happn is an interesting geolocation app. It works by tracking your GPS as you go about your day. The app then shows you who you crossed paths with over the course of your average day. It also keeps a counter of how many times you pass that person over longer periods of time. Like most, you can express interest which is hidden unless it is reciprocated. When mutual attraction happens, you'll be allowed to chat. The app does let people pay to skirt the rules a bit. However, it is a fun little way to see if you bump into anyone over the course of your day and strike up some conversation.
Tinder is extremely famous for finding dates, be it for one night stands, or for finding partners. It has a very casual approach to dating and everybody’s on it, well almost.  It is even advocated as the best app for casual hook ups or sex by Vanity Fair’s article which blames Tinder for the dawn of “Dating Apocalypse”. You may even match with celebrities as the app recently introduced verified profiles for public figures and other famous people.
Surprisingly, Facebook is an excellent app for getting laid. It can do a lot of stuff. You can view local events that you and your friends are interested in. That makes it a good for meeting people. Once you meet people, friend them on Facebook and then use Facebook Messenger to talk to them. You have the benefit of knowing their identity fairly quickly and while their apps are bloated, at least Facebook's apps are free. There are tons of dating sites and hook up apps out there. Most of them still don't have as high of a success rate as being introduced to new people through your friends. The tools are there if you choose to use them.
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